Now let's take what I have just said about the quilt and use this information for child training... I LOVE my children.. and I really do mean LOVE!!!! My children are like non other for sure... lol AND I mean that in the best way... They are rowdy, ornery, tough, sensitive, funny......... I could go on for hours about them... BUT I bet your children are the same as mine so you get the picture.. Now when they were babies and toddlers I took the best care of them.. Making sure the nails were trimmed, hair combed, fed... made sure I sang to them and prayed over them always... Then they became young CHILDREN... One's that wouldn't sit still to get a bath, combed hair...OK wouldn't sit still for anything even in there sleep... I started at this point to start cutting them out into quilt squares, so to speak... And organizing them in such a way that would protect them but yet still give them freedom to change.... Now that they are older 9-12 years of age, I am re organizing them constantly... I am almost afraid to sew it all together just yet.... This is where my back starts hurting so to speak.... struggles, trials, stress occurs... Once I do sew it all together, quilt it, it seems so permanent.. Which to me seems that would be the age where they leave home. You hope and pray that you have raised them right to go into the world and be productive, respectable adults.. (THE FINISHED QUILT).... My oldest son who is 22 years old is an amazing man... He is the perfect BEAUTIFUL quilt... So, I suppose my quilting theory works just fine in raising kids..
My tip to mothers out there is to STOP and STEP BACK and look at the QUILT often... Modify it every day if need be... God intends for families to grow together and to bond.... Take each moment as it comes and be a blessing to your children through love, kindness and laughter ALWAYS...Don't fret over if your house is dirty or if laundry is piling up... You only get one opportunity to raise your children... This day will pass and you will never get it back again. Enjoy your QUILTING....
GOD BLESS
Loved this post Joy! It was just awesome. Hope yall are doing good. Miss yall.
ReplyDeleteKeep blogging I enjoy them.
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You inspired me to start again.... We miss you all so much... Hope all is well.....
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